Paul and I met in September, 1961 as graduate students at Western Michigan University. After finishing at Western, we both took jobs in Indiana. He went to Indianapolis to work as a civilian with the Army Enlisted Evaluation Center. I went with a division of General Motors in Anderson, which is about 45 minutes from Indianapolis. The draft was in full effect during this period and Paul encouraged me to consider leave GM and join his organization in Indianapolis, which I did. Because the Army position was part of the war effort it was classified as a "critical occupation," which allowed us to serve in the military as civilians without being formally drafted.
Although Paul and I had many good times in Indianapolis, my most vivid memory of those days is the announcement over the Army P.A. system that JFK had been killed. About a year later we both left the Army for different destinations. Paul accepted a position with Buick and I headed west to return to graduate school.
About five years later we both had academic positions in Michigan. We subsequently shared many life events. We built houses at the same time, bought new cars at the same time, and began new relationships at the same time. We remained best friends to the end.